I’ve completed Martha Kauppi’s Level 1 training on consenual non-monogamy and will guide you through several topics to consider before pursuing non-monogamy. Whether you’re both ready to jump in to non-monogamy or one of you has doubts, exploring your thoughts and feelings regarding fidelity, monogamy, autonomy, closeness and jealousy will allow you to create the relationship (s) you desire. There are many ways to engage in consensual non-monogamy. Let’s discover your why and then create a plan for how to get started on your journey.

The first hour will be spent learning about the current areas of strengths and challenges in your relationship. We’ll quickly review your relationship history and identify any areas of challenge that need to be accounted for as you consider opening up your relationship to other partners.

The second hour will be spent identifying your why and exploring possibilities of how to engage with your desires in a way that feels manageable to your current lifestyle and relationship.

The third hour will be spent on specific next steps and creating loose agreements. I say loose because agreements that tend to work best in non-monogamy offer a safe frame work to explore, without creating rules that restrict exploration.